If Your Partner Does These 13 Things, You're Not A High Priority

November 12, 2023

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Written By - Ravi Shankar (GoodMindKeeping)

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We all like to think that we are the number one priority for our partners. But in reality, that is not always the truth.

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1. Future Plan Seems to Magically Exclude You

Planning a future together is a natural step in a committed relationship. 

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2. Quality Time? What's That? Definitely Not in Their Dictionary

Quality time is the secret sauce of a thriving relationship. 

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3. Work or You? Work wins, like, All the Time

Balancing work and personal life is tricky but for your partner, work is always the winner.

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4. Affection is as rare as a shooting star from them

Affection is the glue that holds relationships together. 

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5. Cheering on your dreams? They are more like dream-squashers

For some reason, they are raining on your parade and pursuing your goal is now a solo journey. 

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6. Conflict resolution? Nah, let's just sweep it under the rug

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but your partner seems to be a master at avoiding it.

7. They bail on plans way too often, leaving you hanging 

You know that friend who is always fashionable late? Well, Your partner takes it up a notch by canceling plans altogether. 

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8. Texts from them are like spotting a unicorn 

The lack of communication makes you feel like you're talking to yourself.

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9. Ever feel like you're talking to a wall?

When was the last time your partner asked about your day or showed genuine interest in your life?

10. They've got a VIP list and you are not on it

Feeling like an outsider in your own relationship is disheartening and it is a signal that your partner isn't prioritizing your place in their life.

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11. Your needs are like ghosts to them invisible

Your needs and desires seem to be draped in a black hole.

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12. Your achievements get crickets, not applause 

We already talked about your dreams and how your partner might not share the enthusiasm with you.

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13. It is the 'Me Show' and your needs are the understudies

Why should you feel like the understudy in your own story?